Defining moments.....?

ive had a difficult time coping recently due to a consistanr parade of misfortunes. i was lookung back on mt "loud" life moments, like markers in a timeline. i remembered vividly the first time i told my first love how i felt. my life changed a lot after that, cuebed mt path even thoygh my feelings were not returned. i was curious if anyone else had one of these little defining moments, wanna share?